Once upon a time their was a girl name Janey that had high functioning autism and is emotionally disturb and Janey is a dark skinned Black girls with jet black braids that is 15 turning 16.
She's was hitting other kids especial white kids because she feel jealous that they had it easier then her and what I mean by that is. If a white kids said some thing she didn't like or something racist to her she would hit them and pull their hair."
A white girl with blond hair and blue eyes named Octavia that also had high functioning autism and is 15 turning 16 cry's to her parents and said " I get bullied by Janey because every time I have a disagreement with her she would hit me and I would hit her back too defend my self." Octavia's parents said " We need to go to the school.
Octavia's parents told the guidance counselor every thing about Janey hitting Octavia. The guidance counselor Miss. Kimberly that was a black woman asked Janey " Why do you act like this?"
Janey said because" I have parents that spanked me a lot when I was a kid every time I did something my parents didn't like my mom would spank me with a wipe or a belt and put me in a choke hole and punch me in the arm some times and threw frying pans at me and my dad punched me in the arms more than once and punch me in the stomach.
And also punches me in the face when he thinks I'm being disrespectful and I lost it and get violent towards my parents when I was sick of them hitting me.
Janey also said I get jealous at white kids because how come the white kids don't get spanked by there parents and the black kids get spanked or beaten by there parents more because I wish I was white because if I was white I would have parents that don't spank me white kids or more lucky and I'm not lucky I am Jealous that white kids get away with murder more than black kids!"
Miss. Kimberly said " Janey I'm so sorry your parents should not hit you or spank you I'm sorry you have to go threw that.
Miss. Kimberly gave Janey a big hug while Janey was screaming and crying." Miss. Kimberly told Janey " I don't believe in spanking at all because of slavery and Jim Crow black people live in a society where their beaten all the time."
Miss. Kimberly also said " Another reason is black parent usually spank there kids more than white parents and why they make these stereotypes is some what true because white parents teach their white kids to be the power and Black parents teach their Black kids to listen to power and that is because in this society white people have more power then black people.
Miss. Kimberly said "Janey I understand how you feel because I had an abusive father my self I can talk to your parents how you are traumatized."
So Miss. Kimberly had a family Counseling with Octavia parents and Janey parents. Octavia's parents yelled at Janey's parents and said You daughter Janey is bullying our daughter Octavia!"
Janey parent yelled at Octavia's parent first then yelled at Janey and said "Girl what is wrong with you bullying other kids and hitting them that's it you getting a worsted beaten when you get home."
So Miss. Kimberly told every thing to Janey's parents what she is going threw at home and she said " Spanking and whooping Janey is not going to help all it does is making her violets towards other kids and towards her parents."
Janey mother said to Miss. Kimberly " Don't tell us how to raise our daughter!" Janey mother said " You don't hit other kids your a student their your not there parent you have know what to hit them you little ungrateful brat that's why you got hit!"
Janey mother also said to Janey you lucky if you and other black kids get hit more then black kids because we black parents have to be harder on our kids because we black parents know our kids are the quickest to go to jail and get beat up more by the cops if there disrespecting the cops."
Miss. Kimberly said to Janey's mom " It's more deeper then that because the police started as patrol office and they tract down the slaves when they tried to escape and the patrol office bring the slaves back and beat the up some more or even kill them."
Miss. Kimberly also said to Janey's parents trust me I studied psychology I'm a therapist I have a doctors degree in psychology and child development Psychology I had a father that would punch me in the face and in the stomach and he was abusive don't do the same to you daughter because your making the same mistakes my parents where making and that other black parents or making.
Octavia's parents told Janey parents " What kind of sick parents are you treating you daughter like that that's abuse any parent that abuses there kids is an idiot."
Janey's Dad said " Who your calling an idiot you don't come from a black background so you don't understand we black parents can't let our kids get away with murder just like the white kids plus we live in a white society and because their black."
Janey lost it and screamed at her parent and said " I wish people are not harder towards black kids than white kids and will scolded at white kids just a equal as black kids it's not fair I wish you where more like white parent and I wish I was born white I hate you!
Janey's mom said to Janey " Shame on you How dare you talk to me and you father like that your lucky to having parents like us you know some parents would of done worst then me and you father had they would have punched you in the face plus kick you out of the house and you have no where to go!"
Janey's Father also said to Janey " Some kids have no parents working out of the 3rd world countries in the rain and the adults do worst then beat the kids they might try to kill the kids if them kids tried to escapes."
Janey said " Suck for them how is this my problem you beat me every time I done some thing I don't like did I had it bad enough it's not fair that black kids get spanked more then white kids!
Janey's mother said " Well life it's fair!" Janey said " Yeah but it should be fair!" Janey mother said " Well unfortunately the kind of world with live in life it's fair back in the 1960's blacks where not treated equally as whites over a lot of things."
Janey was so angry at her parents and run out of the room and started throwing a big tantrum." Janey's Dad screamed at Janey and said " She your mother has a good point and you have a bad point and you throwing a tantrum like a 2 year old grow up and suck it up because you know hat that's the way life is get use to it!"
Miss. Kimberly said to Janey parents " Wow I can't believe you just said that to your daughter she's hurt right now because she told me that kids bully her and she has abusive parents that was very cruel what you said no wonder why your daughter has anger problems you daughter is very hurt and traumatized now."
Janey's Father said " Hurt and Traumatized from what she's not hurt and Traumatized she's just a annoying little brat that ask the same questions over and over know wonder why kids bully her and give her a beaten first because she's a annoying bully herself she deserves to get a beaten by her parents and other kids because she's a annoying little brat!"
Janey's Parents said "We ashamed that you are our daughter very disrespectful and snitched on us to you counselor you on punishment you all doing all the chores in the house just like you have been doing the rest of your childhood and making dinner for us!"
Octavia's Mom said to Janey's mother " I know it's none of my business you need to treat you daughter better you ashamed that she is autistic you should think as your daughter more of a blessing!"
Janey said to her parent "See that's why I hate you mom and dad because you are very abusive toward me and that's why I'm violated towards you two because you are violent towards me first I have to defend myself.
She also said every time since I was a kids you always force me to do chores like take out the trash, Vacuuming, Do all the laundry, wash dishes and scrubs the floors also cook dinner for you!"
Janey also said to her parent " When I want to enjoy my childhood and when I play with my dolls your guys scream at me and dad throws all of my dolls in the fire and my dolls gave me comforts because I had no friends never had any siblings and my cousin live far away and I don't even want to be around my cousin because they are abusive towards each other and towards me too!"
Miss. Kimberley said to Janey's parents "See if you hit you child so much there going to lose it and hit you back because kids are human just like you they have feeling to they can only take but so much!"
Janey's Parents said " That's disrespectful the bible said Honor the mother and father! and spar the rode spoil the child" Janey said to her parents " Also the bible says that parents shouldn't make their kids angry either and you guy are making me extremely angry!"
Janey's father said " You know your a little smart Alec you know that your not mad your a brat I don't care that you are angry all I care about is disciplining you!"
Miss. Kimberly said to Janey's parents " Well probably the bible means by don't making your kids angry is maybe you shouldn't beat and spank you kid that not just for you that's for all parents!"
Janey's Parents said " That is what you want it to say but it really means to beat your child!"
Miss. Kimberly said A rode is not your hand a rode is when you measure something to some point and the rode is meant to guide the sheep it doesn't mean to beat the sheep and what that means that the rode is meant to guide the child and it's wasn't meant to beat the child that is what I believe and what other parents would believe too!"
Janey's parents said " What Ever!" Miss. Kimberly told to Janey's parents "That is rude your acting like teenagers not adults your age!"
Janey said " The only person that doesn't believe in spanking the same way you do Miss. Kimberly is my Maternal grandmother and my Maternal grandmother are very disappointed for what my parents are doing."
Janey was more closer to her grandmother then her parents so Janey's grandmother gave her vanilla cake with vanilla frosting and the flower shaped cookies with frosting to make her granddaughter feel better.
Janey's Grandmother said " I take to Miss. Kimberly and I agree with Miss. Kimberly I don't believe in spanking either because is comes from slaver and I have a master degree in posology that your parents don't have."
Janey's Grandmother also told Janey " You mom is very abusive towards you because you mom's father was very abusive toward her and me when you mother was a kid and she takes it out on you because how you mother was going up so that is why I study psychology to help you mother and her sibling but her father wouldn't like me because he wouldn't like me and he would beat me up too!"
Janey's Grandmother also does believe in spanking either because Janey's Grandmother was abused by her father when she was a kid.
Janey's grandmother also said " I'm more patient with kids especially autistic kids more then you mother because I have be a parent longer then your mother and your parents had you when they where only 20 at the time and now your parents are in there early 36!"
Janey said " Grandma how old were you when you became a grandmother?" Janey's Grandmother said " I was about to turn 41 when I had you and in a year from now I'm going to turn 60!"
Janey said " Grandma I didn't mean to be mean to Octavia she was being mean to me first and then I lost it!"
Janey's Grandmother said " I know you didn't mean to be mean your a good girl." Janey's mothers in the room said to Janey's grandma " Oh no you not giving her any sweets you don't reward for her bad behavior!"
Janey's Grandmother said to Janey's mother " Too late Janey already at all over her cake cookies and Ice Cream!"
So Janey's mother and Grandmother had an argument. Janey said "Mom I want to live with Grandma."
Janey's mother said to Janey " Why because you grandma gives you any thing you want lets you get away with murder and gives you sweet trust me ain't happening!"
Janey's Grandma said to Janey's mother " Trust me don't make the same mistake that you father and you uncle made!"
Janey's father said to Janey " Your Grandmother Giving you cake and ice-cream with hurt you a lot more then a beaten or a spanking!" Janey's Mother said to Janey" Yeah I agree with your father!"
Janey's Grandmother said " Yeah and how is giving my granddaughter a lot of sweet would hurt her more than a beaten or a spanking it doesn't it's the other way around!"
Janey's mom said to Janey's grandma" See that is what I mean giving her sweets is going to hurt her a lot more then a beaten or a spanking because first of all it would make her a spoiled brat and second of all she going to be a thousand pounds can't walked out of bed and have serious health problems and trust me Ma health problems hurt a lot worst then a spanking because health problem can kill you are you trying to kill my daughter.
Janey's Grandmother said to Janey's Mother "Listen how am I killing my granddaughter I will never kill my granddaughter what you doing if you keep hitting my granddaughter and she hits her head the wrong way and she dies the both of you will go to jail for killing your daughter and actually you abusing my granddaughter and hitting her will kill her quicker than giving her sweets.
Janey's Grandmother said to Janey's mother " I'm taking Janey's home with me!" Janey's Mother said " Oh taking our daughter away from us this it's over my and her father will come to your house and steal my own daughter back from you or even kidnap our daughter if we had too."
Janey's Grandmother said " No you not going to do that because if you try anything and I can't fight both of you because you both younger and stronger than me and I'm out number plus I don't know how to fight I will have to call the police!"
Janey's parents also said to Janey's Grandmother " No your not going to call the police because if you do we give you a serious beaten again like we did to you in the past and hit you so hard that you won't have a chance to call the police!"
Janey said to her parents " No don't threatened my grandma!" Janey's mother said "What Ever!" So Janey pack her things and lived with her grandmother and then she had bad dreams of her own parents kidnapping her and told them back to house house and started beating her up some more!
Janey started screaming in the middle of the night the her grandmother came in in rush in to make sure Janey was okay she told her Grandmother everything about her bad dream and told her grandmother everything about her life and her child hood how she got bullied by other kids hitting her and she hit the kids back and had to fight for her life."
Janey was crying and her Grandmother said "It's Okay Janey it's just a dream I'm not going to let you parent kidnap you hear I'll give you some lavender under you pillow and a friend of mine that's is a grandmother to said it's helps you not get bad dreams any more."
So Janey's parents came to Janey's Grandmothers house and said "Come on Janey we are leaving!"
Janey ran away from her parent and they chased after her Janey's Grandma yelled at Janey's parents to told them to get out of my house Janey's Grandmother was about to called the police but Janey's Father hit Janey Grandmother by punching her in the stomach and punching her in the face and hit her with a frying pan.
Janey's Grandmother tried to get up put she couldn't move Janey said " Grandma!" No! Please Get up!! Janey started crying her own parents chased her Janey ran up to her room and locked the door then she call the police and told the police everything what happen.
The police came and arrested both parents their took Janey's Grandmother to the hospital. Thankfully Janey's Grandmother didn't died she has got knocked out Finally Janey's Grandmother was out of the hospital.
Janey's Grandmother told Janey that not all black parent believe in spanking just like me and you school counselor she also told Janey they are just stereotypes the Black parents spank they kids and white parents don't.
She also said Yeah their is some truth to why Black parent spanks their kids more than white parents but she was saying there are some black parents that believe in spanking while other don't believe in spank just how some white parent don't believe in spanking while other white parents do believe in spanking.
Janey Grandmother said "They are some white parents that spank there kids more than black parents so don't hate all black parent be proud of being black and you have a grandmother that loves you that had studied child development psychology and want's to help her special needs granddaughter.
When Janey went to school Octavia told Janey " Hey Janey I'm sorry you had abusive parent I didn't understand what you were going threw I'm sorry I was bullying you and harassing verbally and called you all kind of very mean names."'
Janey said to Octavia " And I'm sorry for hitting you and getting jealous." So finally Janey and Octavia became best friends and Janey has a grandmother that loves her the end.
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